Honesty has always been the best policy for me. Lately, I have been experiencing a lot of growth in many different areas of my life. Friends that I thought would be around are no longer there. Although I miss them, the season that I am in requires me to have moments of solitude and put me first in order to become the best version of myself. I will not argue, fuss, beg or require anyone to stay where they do not want to be. I also recognize that I have to practice discernment in order to become the best version of me. This means quiet days and nights, prayer, exercise and focusing on anything I want with pure intent. I cannot put the needs of others before mine. Walking into my destiny requires my full attention, excellence, integrity and being a solid version of me in any and all situations. I am on a mission to reclaim everything that is destined for me. I do not care how long it takes because the beautiful journey I am on is worth savoring every moment leading up to it. I am at peace because peace resides within me. I own my flaws and imperfections. They too are molding me in this amazing transformation. I love who I am becoming. More so, I love the love that is exuding from within me. I know I am on the right track because everything is manifesting in divine order. Oh, how sweet to know the shift is happening.

By Brandee Nicole | Celebrity Blogger

The truth of the matter is…we can be our own worst critic.  This outlook can hamper the growth that we have made thus far.  You have to acknowledge the daily steps you’ve made that count as well.  While it’s harder to see the smaller steps, take a look back to a period that wasn’t so far back; harder and darker in nature.  Then you will see that every small step wasn’t in vain.  Look for the good because that’s all that really matters.  Good thoughts create more good thoughts, setting the pace for momentum.  What you are creating is a sweet spot that embodies bliss.  Bliss to happiness.  Bliss in moments of stillness.  Bliss, knowing that everything is working out for your greater good.  Bliss in the fact that people and things come and go, but the solid stays put.  I recently found an IG post that resonated with my life.  May you find it useful and comforting.  Take little nuggets that you can apply to your daily life.  Always find ways to get into a state of bliss.  Everybody loves the sunshine!
 
“Life gets very quiet before all the doors open.  I’m learning that what can feel like loneliness is actually grace.  Rest.  Find your strength.  It will all change soon.”
                                                                                                               - J. Lynn    

A lot has changed instantly.  So much so….you could miss it if you blink!  Change is in the air; a new season quickly approaching.  If you’re wise, you’ll take heed, get still and listen for instruction.  There comes a point when you stop staying in familiar territory just because change is scary.  The voice inside that is begging to be heard will no longer stay silent.  An awakening is happening.  Old thought patterns and habits will no longer work for you.  A newness of the mind, body and soul is required.  Clutter must be dealt with.  Isolation is often the best place to address this.  No one can help you because the answer is already within self.  You know what it is that you must do.  You can tap dance all around the truth, but the Most High will still make you own yourself.  You can delay the process by not being obedient, but things do have a way of coming full circle.  When the Most High is ready to bring about change, you must answer the call.  If it requires you to leave friends, associates, family and the like, so be it!  Your life was purposed for greater good, free of mediocrity and full of potential.  This time around requires more. More commitment.  More focus. More of you.  Less of them.  Don’t let this season pass you by and rob you of an opportunity to level up.  Remember, the sovereign one will see you through.  

By Brandee Nicole | Celebrity Blogger

When you want something to last, you speak life into it. Not only that, you allow the process to manifest in its own time. This includes slow cooking at a set temperature, wisely stepping away while allowing the seasoning an opportunity to penetrate. Most importantly, you have to understand that there is a spiritual and supernatural backing that is allowing everything to come together at the proper divine time. There is nothing you can do to speed up the process or make things happen quicker in your favor. Refocus your attention on the things that you can control. This includes your emotional stability, breaking habits that no longer serve you and being patient in this process. Greatness requires a knowing. A knowing that the seeds you have planted will manifest. A knowing that everything will work out in your favor at the set and appropriate time. A knowing that you cannot lose because you are built to win. A knowing that you are anointed. When the time is right...oh, how you will shine bright like a diamond!
 
Greater is He that is in me, than he that is in the world!
 I John 4:4

By Brandee Nicole | Celebrity Blogger

You get to a place where you need to quiet the outside world.  Where the constant noise is a distraction to your peace.  Where you can no longer ignore the red flags or check engine lights that are now flashing.  You cannot continue relationships and situationships that no longer serve a purpose.  It’s too exhausting and the price you pay is expensive.  You start to reassess decisions and habits that brought you to this point.  It starts with acknowledgement and accountability.  Once you’re at this point, then can you move forward with grace and stride.  When you recognize that each decision moving forward has to be met with caution, clarity and a clear thought process, you tend to be more selective.  Owning your behaviors and taking time to assess your internal system is necessary and beneficial to a beautiful new beginning.  Take your time.  Do what feels good to you.  Create a space of self-love, introspection, peace and healing.  Truly, you know what you gotta do.  Your body sounds an alarm to check-in and tune-up.  What you don’t acknowledge now will show up later at the most inopportune time.  Don’t avoid your healing work!  Be gentle and loving with yourself.  You are a work in progress.  Your light cannot be dimmed.  You are the prize…act accordingly! Find your way back home…    

By Brandee Nicole | Celebrity Blogger

Life challenges us in ways that are hard to accept, but are very necessary. The Most High teaches us how to behave and conduct ourselves when we experience adversity. Sometimes, we are used as a vessel for someone else's journey. We are not oblivious or exempt from fine tuning, but we do have a responsibility to be receptive and learn from the lessons at hand. We are not a perfect people, but we do have a responsibility to handle each other with care and delicate gloves. Communication, actions and thoughts all represent ways in which our internal feels and expresses our love language. Action without thought is dangerous! Sometimes we are not cognizant of the animosity and hurt that we withhold within ourselves, but we do have a responsibility in how we portray and project those behaviors on others. Do we fall short at times? Of course, we do. Many times, it is in hindsight where we realized that our actions and our emotions verbalized may not have been communicated in the most appropriate and effective manner. Are there opportunities for forgiveness? Yes. But true forgiveness takes time and is well-received after we sit within ourselves and understand that are behaviors are a direct representation of our wounded being. We must make a conscious effort to choose our words wisely and how we spew them out on others. Our words have lasting effects and many times they cannot be taken back, depending on how severe they are. Love is a conduit for healing. Love is going within one's self. Love is acknowledging that we are not always right. Love makes us accountable for our actions. Love transcends. Love recognizes areas of improvement. Where there is love, hate cannot reside. Love conquers all. Ultimately, love will prevail in the end!

By Brandee Nicole | Celebrity Blogger

A new me.  A new attitude.  A new walk. A new talk.  A new love of self.  A newfound respect for self.  A new leash on life.  A new breath.  A new perspective.  All things new from within.  Sometimes you have to take a step back.  Many times, when you have a chance to break from the hustle and bustle of life, idle time is necessary to simple go within and discover the YOU that is waiting to be reborn.  This rebirth has nothing to do with anyone or anything outside of self.  Most importantly, you owe the person in the mirror an opportunity to become whole again.  This requires isolation for you to work on the many things neglected in the past.  This makes way for healing that only self can facilitate.  No one can heal you but yourself.  Suddenly, you realize you don’t react to toxic situations or people the way you used to.  You can be in spaces with negative people and it doesn’t feel burdensome.  You have peace and clarity.  Everything that you attempted in the past is now met with ease.  You now wonder why it was so hard in the first place.  Understand that everything takes time.  You give thanks for the people and situations that shaped your life.  You appreciate the hard times because they helped you recognize the blessings that are present.  It’s the little things in life that make all the difference.  Working on self is quite humbling because you have to work on the core that has been hidden for so long.  This process is ongoing and becomes a beautiful transformation; one that requires gentleness to its approach.  Keep in mind, some will not understand the journey you’re on and that’s okay.  Give yourself permission to be free at all times.  Know that you are a Soulstar!  

By Brandee Nicole | Celebrity Blogger

This weekend set the tone for my future.  Quite frankly, I felt in my spirit that it is the catalyst of what’s to come.  I had the pleasure of interviewing a dear friend of mine, Greyvi.  She is the owner of Bella Body Laser Center, located in Tamarac, Florida.  Greyvi is a licensed aesthetician, specializing in skincare treatment of all types.  Successfully pursuing a path that represents everything she stands for; she was able to bounce back from a tumultuous period in her life.  Redefining her life’s purpose as an entrepreneur and an active mother to her son, she is making strides in her community as a leader, influencer and transforming the lives of men and women alike, to look their very best.  You can find Greyvi on Instagram and Facebook.  The IamBrandeeNicole interview with Greyvi will lauch soon on the BellaSpeakss YouTube channel.  Make sure you reach out and schedule your consultation and learn how to exude your very best!
 
Bella Body Laser Center
5449 N State Road 7
Tamarac, FL  33319
P: 855-460-8919
F: 855-460-6124
E: bellabodyllc.com
 
Greyvi’s Personal Music Selection: @Beyonce’ – I Was Here

By Brandee Nicole | Celebrity Blogger

Ever wonder how you got to this current moment?  The moment you realize everything you have been through was a set-up for now and the moments to come.  When it all starts to make sense.  When the place you’re in awakens every emotion, need, desire and feeling.  With ease, nothing is a fuss any longer.  You can now realize the difference between force and ease.  Needs are welcomed and actually, recognized before communicating them verbally.  Reciprocation is met and you wonder why it was so hard to achieve before.  Nothing is perfect, but everything is easily resolvable, explained and matched.  No pressure.  Consistency is obvious.  Internal/external joy just because.  When you can tell The Most High is working on your behalf, you understand the pace is already set and you just have to move steadily and free flowing.  No need to rush to the finish line.  Simply, enjoying the journey, stopping at all scenic routes and appreciating the sunshine.  Oh, how the sun shines so bright.  He shines back.  Instinctively, you know everything is A-ok!  Get to a place where you can be repurposed into a beautiful new direction.  One clear of strife, difficulty, stiffness and dysfunction.  New directions make you appreciate this road you have embarked on.  Don’t forget to stay the course.  You will be pleasantly surprised, as real jewels are revealed.  Relish in this moment….it only gets better!       

By Brandee Nicole | Celebrity Blogger

We are at the start of a new week, where we can create the joy we hope to experience.  The Most High has given us a new day.  Think about where you are in this exact moment and relish in the fact that you are okay.  You’re breathing, you’re alive…nothing else matters.  Allow positivity and optimism to overtake your every thought and action.  You are where you’re supposed to be.  You have the power to create your happiness over and over again.  Jot down what you expect to accomplish for the week.  Don’t punish yourself if you don’t get to everything.  Give thanks that you woke up.  Appreciate that you have somewhere to be today.  Put on your favorite cologne/perfume.  Be grateful for travelling mercies.  Be courteous and let someone know how much they mean to you.  Put on your favorite song.  Look yourself in the mirror and enjoy the reflection that is looking back at you.  Pace yourself so that you have enough time to safely get to your destination.  Smile and rest assured that all is well.  Manage your stress by breathing and thinking positive thoughts.  Know that you have been equipped with all the tools necessary to meet your day head on.  Seek gratitude throughout the day and do something nice for someone just because.  Watch how things work in your favor!  Relax, you made it!  Give thanks. 

By Brandee Nicole | Celebrity Blogger