Sometimes we find ourselves in situationships that falsely represent love (in our mind). It is our responsibility to work through these areas so that we can clearly see truth from fiction. If you have nothing to compare it to, it can be hard to see the obvious. One thing is for sure; sexiness can be displayed in many different ways. Communication and effort go a mighty long way. When someone can clearly and articulately express themselves in a meaningful way, it lets you know how uncommon it is in today’s society. Being vulnerable enough to take a chance and do something outside the box, when you don’t know how the other party will receive it is dope! That comparison can be a deal breaker, ha! If you’ve ever been in this space, you gotta look up to the heavens and thank The Most High for allowing you to dodge a bullet. Whew! In an ever changing world, it is uncommon to be uncommon. Be gracious, beautiful, handsome, noble, amazing, inspiring and affirming. Don’t let anybody knock you off your stance. If you are not respected, appreciated or loved, stand down and switch your direction. Sometimes the best thing you can do is activate silence. Silence is your God-given right to stand in your truth, process the moment and walk away with your head held high in grace. It does not mean that you punked out or quit. It simply means you are mature and strong enough to know when enough is enough. Sometimes people don’t understand that when they don’t close the door properly, it gets permanently closed on them. Access denied. No re-entry. Authenticity and truth go hand-in-hand. I don’t know about y’all, but I desire a steady type of love.
By Brandee Nicole | Celebrity Blogger